“Where do we go from here?” It’s a question asked amongst couples with problems in their relationship. So how do couples deal with their problems? Some go to counseling, some deal with it privately what works for some doesn’t necessarily work for others. There are even couples out there that just sweep the issues they have under the carpet. Not a healthy way to deal with things, in my opinion, but it happens far more often then not.
I have encountered a few couples over the last four months going through some trials and tribulations in their relationships. Some have similar situations, some more unique, but regardless, the issues all of them had, were to be addressed and not ignored.
Let’s take Allen, for example, remember him? Allen had an issue with me and with his wife, Salina. Let’s break down Allen’s situations. With Salina, he had the issues of infidelity, deceit and an obvious lack of respect. Whether it comes from both side of the fence, or just his, there was not enough respect there to garner the trust of each other and these things have happened in their marriage.
However I have learned over the years, a single formula for love wasn’t always the best solution every couple. There are different foundations and different layouts, so therefore, different types of renovations. Although there are different approaches and not everyone starts fixing their problems from the foundation of their relationships, the common consensus is that everyone wants to find a solution.
How does a couple move forward from something like infidelity and deceit? Only each couple can make their own paths to their roads to recovery. All everyone needs to know are they had to be willing to make the necessary steps to come to some common ground. It does not always mean each couple will live happily ever after, it’s a rarity these days to be quite honest, but what each couple is looking for is form of closure. An event or idea to put the issue, or the relationship to rest would substantiate the aforementioned questions.
From what I have gathered as well, simple solutions usually stem from simple methods. Why complicate things? It’s already the reason so many people are in the pickles they so chose for each other.
Just a few thoughts for the day. It’s been a while. I have recently been on the road for my work and it’s been very difficult to find the time to “beautify’ myself, let alone blog weekly. I promise to make more time to do more than just work.
Stay true to you!
Georgie English
Georgie_english@myself.com
